wiserfromexperience:

nlightenwarrior:

My first time with a man outside of my marriage was as scary as it was erotic. I was lucky enough that my husband found a gentleman with an incredible vocabulary. He was polite and incredibly patient with me… I kept stalling to meet him in person. He was mischievously charming and at no time was he rude.

Our chats were short but he knew how to make my head spin. He knew how to speak to a woman… and he made me feel sexy without any crudeness. My anxieties were swept aside and replaced with anticipation. Where I was first apprehensive, I was now yearning. When the night finally arrived to give myself to him, I could hardly contain myself.

If you’re a man and have the privilege to meet a married woman for her first time, be that man that will forever live in her hall of fame. Take your time with her. Make her feel special and important. Be creative with your words and speak with her with respect. She’s already filled with anxiety and doubt, it’s your job to help her overcome it not add to it.

My first “lover” did this to me … it was magical … and scary! … and a hot rush! Totally recommend to anyone trying it for the first time. Hubby was very strong and confident to let me do this … not for the faint hearted!