The Hate Against Non-Monogamous Desires & Relationships Needs To Stop.

thecuckoldconsultant:

Some days I wake up and I think things like, “Ya know, we’ve
made tremendous relative progress as
a society in terms of overcoming ignorance-based hate, prejudice, and discrimination.”

But then other days I wake up and I think things like, “How
is it possible that we’ve made it to the 21^st century and yet still,
there are just so many people who hold
ignorant views that exude nothing but blind hatred towards that which they
either don’t understand or just simply don’t like?”

Today, I woke up thinking the latter.

I therefore wanted to take some time to send a message to those
who still apparently have prejudicial/condescending/mocking/hateful/hostile/intolerant
attitudes towards people who live some kind of alternative or non-mongamous sexual relationship
arrangement such as swinging, hotwifing, cuckolding, cuckqueaning, polyamory, etc…

If your current view of the world is one that automatically associates
having “alternative” sexual desires and living in “alternative” sexual
relationships with abnormality, weakness, insecurity, shame, sin,  being mentally unstable/unfit…your worldview
says more about you than it does
those towards whom you are prejudiced.

If you attempt to justify your own prejudicial and hostilely
disapproving attitudes towards “alternative” sexual desires and living “alternative”
sexual relationships by resorting to explaining said desires and relationships in
ways which make you think you’re better or healthier or more right than those
who aren’t monogamous or vanilla…you are wearing blinders and your views are biased.

If you aren’t yet aware of how “alternative” sexual desires
and living “alternative” sexual relationships can indeed be indicative of the
strength and health of a person and/or relationship (as opposed to the weakness
of a person and/or relationship), you are sorely mistaken and ignorant.

And finally, if you harbor or hold any kind of disapproving,
hostile, or hateful attitudes towards those who have “alternative” sexual
desires and who live “alternative” sexual relationships…it is the 21^st
century and you need to Grow. The. Hell. Up. and start focusing more on
understanding those who are different than you instead of hating on them.

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