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Negative aspect of this caption, disclaimer style: women should feel confident and self-assured no matter what they do, what weight they are, or what they’re like sexually speaking. Same goes for guys too in different ways, but it’s more obvious how much women get torn down. Society sets up some crazy expectations. If a woman can’t be convinced she’s desirable or important without one or two specific activities (like sex), then she should probably investigate why she’s feeling that way. It could be a really deep issue. And sex isn’t going to be the answer, no matter what kind of sex we’re talking about. Sex isn’t a long-term cure-all.

Positive aspect of this caption: it’s true that women who sleep with other men often report an immediate surge in confidence and arousal. A lot of it seems to be biological, so it’s true of hotwifing, swinging, dating after divorce, or outright cheating. But in hotwifing couples, wives have an extra edge, compersion. Hotwives know their husbands are getting aroused by her arousal, besides the excitement of the variety with a new gentleman. It’s a massive cycle of arousal and confidence. This caption isn’t true for all people in every place and time, but it’s a huge part of couples’ success stories of modern hotwifing couples. Wives feel rejuvenated and transformed into a more vibrant way of thinking—often something she may have felt more of in youth, but now tempered with the wisdom of a more experienced wife and mother.

So with the caveat above in mind, it’s true: wives who date frequently say they’ve become more confident and satisfied.

How did your first hotwife experience feel? How did your hubby react? :)

northernutahhotwife:

There were so many “feelings” to keep track of! Emotionally, I was excited, scared, nervous, horny, giddy…

I was excited as this was something new that not every wife gets to experience. The guy was super sexy (still is actually), so I was excited to touch and be touched by him.

I was scared since this was so far out of what is socially acceptable and I wasn’t sure how it would affect my marriage. My husband seemed excited, but would it negatively affect the way he looked at me?

So nervous if I would do it “right”. I had only been with an ex-husband and my current husband. I was t sure what to expect with a new guy. No other man had touched me in this way in almost 15 years!

By the time we were on the way the guy’s place, I was SOOO horny! We were committed and my pussy was ready. My husband said he had never felt me so wet!

I was so giddy I couldn’t stop smiling the whole drive over. My husband’s reactions to my excitement made me so happy! My smile quickly changed to moans of pleasure once the guy got to work.

The physical feeling is hard to describe. Having a stranger’s hands and mouth touch me in such an intimate way was electrifying! And once his hard cock was between my legs, I had lost all inhibitions. He was lying on his back on the couch and I was straddling him cowgirl, with my tongue down his throat. I was completely unaware of my husband’s presence. I was sliding my super wet pussy along his shaft, no penatration yet. Then without thinking about it, my hips came up just a bit, and his cock slide in so easily! The sensation of having a new cock slide inside of me after 15 years of only enjoying my husband’s was overwhelming! I came almost immediately! My first playmate spent the next hour fucking me in multiple positions.

My husband reacted just as he expected to! He was so turned on to watch me enjoy a new cock. That’s all we talked about for the next couple weeks. He was a little disappointed with the way I became unaware of his presence for a bit. But he understood it was mostly out of my control. I did make an effort at future play dates to keep some focus on him.

How was that for a long winded answer?!

wiserfromexperience:

nlightenwarrior:

My first time with a man outside of my marriage was as scary as it was erotic. I was lucky enough that my husband found a gentleman with an incredible vocabulary. He was polite and incredibly patient with me… I kept stalling to meet him in person. He was mischievously charming and at no time was he rude.

Our chats were short but he knew how to make my head spin. He knew how to speak to a woman… and he made me feel sexy without any crudeness. My anxieties were swept aside and replaced with anticipation. Where I was first apprehensive, I was now yearning. When the night finally arrived to give myself to him, I could hardly contain myself.

If you’re a man and have the privilege to meet a married woman for her first time, be that man that will forever live in her hall of fame. Take your time with her. Make her feel special and important. Be creative with your words and speak with her with respect. She’s already filled with anxiety and doubt, it’s your job to help her overcome it not add to it.

My first “lover” did this to me … it was magical … and scary! … and a hot rush! Totally recommend to anyone trying it for the first time. Hubby was very strong and confident to let me do this … not for the faint hearted!

itskkiss:

yes….again…..and again and again !

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As you can see, there are quite a few captions that show how popular of a fantasy it is for guys to imagine their wife undressed with another man.

Men won’t come out and talk about this taboo subject in polite conversation, but they do have a lot more freedom here in the anonymous internet world. And women can learn a lot about their husbands by asking if he’s one of these guys.

Chances are, he’s very aroused by this idea of his loving wife acting very naughty (at least every once in awhile).

sharingwifes:

Over 40,000 followers, 7500 pics!Come enjoy and share with…

If more wives knew what kind of crazy stuff their guys were thinking about their soulmate—they’d be amazed!

As you can tell, there are quite a few captions that show how popular of a fantasy it is for guys to imagine their wife undressed with another man.

Men won’t come out and talk about this taboo subject in polite conversation, but they do have a lot more freedom here in the anonymous internet world. And women can learn a lot about their husbands by asking if he’s one of these guys.

Chances are, he’s very aroused by this idea of his loving wife acting very naughty (at least every once in awhile).

hotwife4oldermen:

My favorite part of the night is watching my hot wife making out with her bull. Something about how he slides his hand over her ass and lifts up her skirt and feels her ass.

Hotwife, playdate, and husband making a hot memory!

As you can see, there are quite a few captions that show how popular of a fantasy it is for guys to imagine their wife undressed with another man.

Men usually won’t come out and talk about this taboo subject in polite conversation, but they do have a lot more freedom here in the anonymous internet world. And women can learn a lot about their husbands by asking if he’s one of these guys.

This couple shows how exciting it can be to act on this fantasy.

Chances are, he’s very aroused by this idea of his loving wife acting very naughty (at least every once in awhile).

kinkycouple1409:

Makes me horny and hard to know that she will make him have an unforgettable pleasure at the same way that she drives me crazy !!!😈😍😈😍😈😍

As you can see, there are quite a few captions that show how popular of a fantasy it is for guys to imagine their wife undressed with another man.

Men won’t come out and talk about this taboo subject in polite conversation, but they do have a lot more freedom here in the anonymous internet world. And women can learn a lot about their husbands by asking if he’s one of these guys.

Chances are, he’s very aroused by this idea of his loving wife acting very naughty (at least every once in awhile).

Poll: How important is Hotwifing to your sex life?

Of 187 hotwifing couples who responded to an informal internet pill, the majority said this kink plays a role, but it isn’t a central part of their sex life.

Looking from the vantage point of a mostly monogamous couple, the extremes on the top and bottom sound sad. Those men who can’t get aroused without another man (3%) might want to look for a solution or alternative, unless their wives are okay living like that. The 11% of men and women who have a husband or wife that won’t even join in fantasy play—well, that’s pretty damned lonely for them too. The fact that they are taking this poll on a hotwifing discussion forum is enough to show you that they’re not getting rid of the interest.

That middle 37% and the fantasizing 15% are both pretty much in the sweet spot for this blog, as well as that 22% of couples that get really into it. Together, that’s 74%, a good solid block.

Lessons?

  • Well, first off, you can do or avoid hotwifing with whatever frequency you decide. Once a year or every week—it’s totally up to you as a couple. #reassurance
  • Second of all, a small minority of couples gets way deeper than I’d be comfortable with, and it sounds more like a polyamorous situation, or an obsessive guy that might need to get help. #boundaries
  • And thirdly, it’s sad when you’re one of those men or women who get so rejected that your partner won’t listen or play along to even the slightest degree of fantasy. I wonder if they’re set up for success as a couple. Total lack of #respect

The poll and discussion can be found below.

How important is Hotwifing to your sex life? – Our Hotwives