It’s more than just being kinky. Without a strong sense of security in yourselves and in your marriage, some fantasies should stay in the fantasy realm. Be honest about your feelings and be honest about the strengths and the weaknesses of your marriage. Without my husband’s encouragement and support, there was no way I would have been able to truly know myself and not just sexually.
Posting this because it addresses something a ton of women think after their husbands bring this kink up: “Oh my God, this is probably an elaborate plan so he can feel less guilty about cheating on me.” Or something like that.
This is a byproduct of hotwifing getting too little media exposure compared with the number of guys who fantasize about it.
Nope. It might sound like the weirdest, least intuitive kink you’ve ever heard of, but it’s exactly what guys are fantasizing about all over.
He pictures you, his lovely wife, getting all horny with other men. It turns him on, and he can’t explain why, but it’s got nothing to do with wanting to leave you or disrespect you. It’s the exact opposite! It shows how much he thinks about you.
You’re the centerpiece of his fantasies.
If you can’t get anything else, at least get that part of it!
Mixed emotions are definitely real when you start something new. Especially if it’s pretty different from how you’re used to thinking about things.
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