The Hotwife / Cuckold fantasy is one of the fastest growing
fantasies out there.
More and more men are finding the thought of their wives and
girlfriends sleeping with another man arousing for a large variety of reasons.
This post is not about why men want this or why women should
do this. This post is about the respect your wife or girlfriend deserves,
whether she decides to go along with your fantasy or not.
I see post after post from men asking how they can convince
their significant other to have sex with other men, but you also need to know
how to handle it if she doesn’t want to have sex with other men.
My wife knows about my fantasies and agrees that the idea is
hot, but she has not agreed to act on the fantasy in real life. I love my wife
and would never force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. So far my
wife teases me about having a boyfriend and lovers, as well as some light MFM role
play in the bedroom. While I hope that it goes father one day, I am okay if she
stops here.
You can’t let this consume you or get in the way of your relationship.
If you love and respect each other, then you have to also respect each other’s boundaries.
Don’t get mad or upset id she says she only wants to be with you! What a great
honor to have a woman who loves you so much that she is willing to forsake all
others.
The bottom line is she is your wife or girlfriend, not a
piece of meat for you to whore out.
Please love each other and share your journey together. No
one should ever be forced to do something they might come to regret. They will
resent you for it in the long run. That resentment will be a cancer in your
relationship.
It’s more than just being kinky. Without a strong sense of security in yourselves and in your marriage, some fantasies should stay in the fantasy realm. Be honest about your feelings and be honest about the strengths and the weaknesses of your marriage. Without my husband’s encouragement and support, there was no way I would have been able to truly know myself and not just sexually.
Make sure to talk about boundaries. Wife, give your man a good idea how far you can go. Husband, don’t be surprised when she does it!