One love? We all have the capacity for unlimited love. We all love different people, places, and things. And because we love one thing doesn’t mean we love the other any less. We share our love uniquely with others. One isn’t better than the other and we should see it that way. I can love my boyfriend hard and strong but it is not the way I love my husband. My love for him is also strong and it is undying. I can never love anyone the way I love my husband and neither he or I would want that. The song says, “One Love” in ways, at least for me, I don’t agree with. At least for me, there are many loves, many opportunities to express my love. I don’t see the benefits for caging the heart and limiting oneself to only one love. But that’s just me.
HWRP #5 Start carrying a condom in your purse. Of course you don’t use them with your husband, so why else would you need condoms? After you put a condom in your purse, ask him to get something from your purse for you. He will see it. Maybe he says something maybe he doesn’t. Periodically take the condom out or replace it with a different brand. Again have him get something from your purse. He will will go looking for it this time. After a few times you will not have to ask him to go into your purse, he’ll sneak a peak when your not looking.
So your husband has confessed his desire for you to explore sex outside of your marriage. You’re not sure how you feel about that. You can still have some fun with it even if you have not made the decision to open your marriage. There are some fun ways to explore the fantasy without inviting another person in. This can also be a good way to test the waters and make sure your husband is really on board with this. Have fun with it and drive him crazy with role play!
There’s a ton of ideas for just fantasizing as a couple if you don’t actually feel like you should ever include another person for real.
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