Religious husband worried about wives dressing too sexy
I am not making this up. While searching for hotwifing articles, I came across its exact opposite: religious people who feel the need to police other people and make sure they aren’t being too hot. This article uses the words “hot” and “wife,” so it showed up on the first page of results. Here’s some text from the article:
They were sitting on the couch across from me, and the wife had on some super-short shorts. Think Jessica Simpson in the horrific remake of Dukes of Hazard pair of denim cut-offs. Nah…shorter than even that, actually. When I asked the husband if he would be cool with male company coming over and seeing his wife dressed that way, he said, “Yes,” and then took it a step further and said “If they end up feeling some kind of way, that’s their lust problem, not ours.”
What was even more interesting is that the wife said “Is what I’m wearing too sexy? I’ve had a few people talk to me about that lately.”
Apparently, the problem is that a woman will mess up a guy’s soul if she is too good looking and dresses sexy? The culprit seems to be that lust is bad. Who knows?
I personally find lust to be a fun and amazing addition to the day, and I’m happy when I get some lust going on, and when other people get to feel it too. To me, it sounds like this person would shame you for driving by a bakery and lusting for that fresh-bread smell.
Anyway, if you’re feeling like your kink for seeing your wife undressed for other people is weird, you oughta see how weird the opposite alternative is.
Literally nosing into other people’s marriages and telling them how to dress, and telling people on the internet about why they need to cover their wives up. And especially picking on this one couple in the opening story—shaming this husband and wife who opened their home to this author, only to have this written up about them. Now that’s fucked up.
If you want to dress in a burqa, go for it. If you want to wear a granny dress and you and your husband like what that does for your relationship, that’s your business. If you and your husband like it when you dress sexy and get a little extra attention…well, you’re here reading this, so obviously you’re also going to get no judgment here. But if you go to peoples houses and start shaming them for wearing short shorts, and do an Internet expose at their expense? Now that is a problem. Tagging this with #respect and #boundaries, because clearly they’re lacking both.
Here’s the article:
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